40 Things I Miss Now I Am a Mother of 'Two Under Two'
What the *$&£$ ??That was my reaction every time I had to get up for my firstborn -- which was roughly every two hours.
Nobody told me it would be that hard. Having my first baby was probably the biggest shock to my system... I felt like I had been through a high-speed washing machine cycle.
It took me months to straighten out all the wrinkles... months after which -- bam -- baby number 2 arrived.
So here I am with two adorable little girls and a long list of things that I miss about my old life.
To name but a few:
- Sleep
- Sleeping
- Waking up because of the sun... never mind, in London there is no sun
- Waking up because of my alarm clock at 6:00 a.m. not because of a baby who wants to comfort feed at 10:00 p.m., 12:00 a.m., 2:00 a.m., 4:00 a.m., and finally at 6:00 a.m. Oh and also at 3:00 a.m. because of a toddler who wants milk.
- Showering without an audience
- Showering for more than 5 minutes
- Going to the bathroom when I need to instead of when both kids are napping... Well, sometimes, I do, and then...
- I miss using the bathroom without four little eyes staring at me
- Reading real books without flaps, music, or pictures
- Reading an article (hell, even a headline) in one sitting
- Sending messages and emails with correct spelling, grammar, and punctuation
- Not knowing who Peppa the Pig or Spot the Dog are
- Listening to my own music instead of Little Baby Bum and Mother Goose Club nursery rhymes... all day long
- Not humming tunes in my head of all the songs my toddler listens to
- Eating out of my own plate -- uninterrupted -- instead of eating leftovers from my toddler's hands while I nurse a baby
- Wearing heels
- Sleeping
- The days when my phone and iPad belonged to me and I could use them without fear of being mugged by a toddler
- Cooking full meals instead of ordering pizza
- Having those meals go down well with an adult audience instead of thrown back at me in disgust by a toddler
- Waking up next to my husband and not next to one of the babies
- Waking up without a little foot on my face or a head digging into my back
- Going out to shop and not because the kids need fresh air and a walk
- Talking to my husband about things other than poop, food, and kids schedules
- Talking to anyone about anything other than poop, food, and kids schedules
- Actually, any human interaction with someone taller than 2 feet.
- Being on time
- Staying up late without worrying about having to wake up early the next morning
- An empty laundry basket
- An empty sink
- A house that stays clean and organized for more than one hour
- Reading in bed before sleeping instead of crashing on the couch from exhaustion
- Going out to dinner at 8:00 p.m. instead of going to bed by then
- Leaving the house with a small purse instead of a large bag with a supermarket and pharmacy inside
- Nobody giving me advice about every little child-related thing
- Traveling with only a carry-on instead of a check in luggage, a carry-on, a purse, a food bag, a stroller, a stuffed animal, and a blankie
- Making restaurant reservations based on when we want to eat and not based on nap schedules
- Walking around the house without tripping on legos
- Wearing clothes that stay clean the WHOLE... ENTIRE... DAY
- SLEEEEEEEEP
The funny thing about this seemingly constant state of sleep deprivation I'm in, though, is that I can't possibly imagine a better alternative.
Maybe it's the lack of sleep talking
But maybe... having kids really is that wonderful... lack of sleep and all.
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