I’m a dominatrix – I’ve brought men to tears & whipped them until they pass out but there’s a popular request I refuse
A PROFESSIONAL dominatrix shared an insight into her job, including some of the unusual requests she receives.
The sex worker also revealed the popular fetish that she tends to avoid.
In a Reddit post, the unnamed user shared her experience in the industry.
“I’ve been involved in pro-kink since 2000, and have done some fetish films and a little teaching and mentoring,” she explained.
The woman went on to say that she currently focuses on working as a BDSM dominatrix.
She revealed some of the ways she dominates men, which often involves bringing them to tears.
“Emotional release is necessary, and emotional release requires trust,” the poster said.
“I feel honoured and blessed when someone cries with me.”
She recalled specific encounters she has had with clients, sharing one where the man passed out during their session.
“We were at a play party, and I was whipping him pretty hard,” she said.
“I knew I was riding his limit, and then – he broke, his hands were cuffed around a post, so he just fell straight down onto his butt on the floor.”
She explained that it took the client “a couple of seconds to revive” before she was able to give him water.
“I uncuffed him and talked to him, he was fine, and we went on to do an amazing bullwhipping scene later that night.”
She added that she does not advocate for making someone pass out and said she has never had to call an ambulance for a client.
The dominatrix also revealed a common request that she briefly considered but decided against.
A fellow Reddit user asked her about her thoughts on relieving yourself on other people.
“I’ve considered it, but boy, it’s harder than you might think to even pee on someone,” she said.
I know some dommes who specialise in that, and it’s not something you decide to do 15 minutes before the client arrives.
Unnamed dominatrix
“Prepping for a [brown shower] requires a lot of forethought: what/how much you eat, fluids, etc.
“I know some dommes who specialise in that, and it’s not something you decide to do 15 minutes before the client arrives.”
The professional, who charges between £195 to £235 per hour, also discussed how her job has effected her relationship.
“My current partner, whom I’ve been with for several years, isn’t into BDSM,” she explained.
“I’ve always had a pretty advanced sexual appetite, I had my first three-way at 16, my first [time having] sex with a woman [was] at 17.
“I’m insatiably curious, but I’ve gotten most things out of my system by now, much to my boyfriend’s relief.”
However, she revealed that she and her boyfriend both enjoy swinging with women.
In relation to her other desires, the Redditor said her work is a “great outlet.”