I’m 19 & having sex with my UNCLE – he sent me dirty pics claiming they were for my aunt and now he’s in love with me
A YOUNG woman has revealed that she has been having sex with her uncle.
The 19-year-old confessed that things all started when her family member sent her a dirty picture claiming it was for her aunt, but now, things have progressed even further.
Keen to open up about the situation, the anonymous woman took to social media to share all, leaving many open-mouthed.
Posting on Reddit, on the r/confession thread, the woman wrote under the username @neiceprobs and titled her post ‘I’m having consensual sex with my uncle’.
She then explained that she was eager for guidance on the situation, as she penned: “I was gonna post this in r/incest but they’re more concerned with the fetish part and I’m looking for advice.
“Whenever my family visits my aunt and uncle, me and my uncle have sex.
“My uncle has only played around. He would flirt casually but I never retaliated.
“He would text me sometimes and talk dirty.
“He sent a picture of his c**k to me and claimed it was for my aunt.”
But now, the young woman admitted that her uncle has toned down his flirting.
As a result, she took matters into her own hands, as she confessed: “However he stopped flirting with me so much and I kinda missed it so I started to be dirty too.
“I gave him [oral sex] on the day of my cousin’s birthday and not soon after that we had sex.”
Unsure on what to do, the woman concluded: “The problem is he fell in love with me and doesn’t want me to date anyone else.
“I’m 19 and want to live my life.”
Which generation is having the most sex?
A new report has lifted the lid on bedroom antics.
The research, conducted by experts at Kinsey Institute at Indiana University, revealed the average number of times people of different generations have sex per month.
- Gen Z – three times a month
- Millennials – five times a month
- Gen X – five times a month
- Boomers – three times a month
Reddit users react
Reddit users were left stunned by the young woman’s confession and many flocked to the comments to share their thoughts on the situation.
Whilst many were concerned by the cheating, others advised her to simply ‘move on’.
Four red flags your partner is cheating
Private Investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating.
They start to take their phone everywhere with them
In close relationships, it’s normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones, if their phone habits change then they may be hiding something.
Aaron says: “If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful.”
“You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don’t want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it’s an easy way to get caught out,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron.
Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify.
“To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you haven’t walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime. A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating,” warns Aaron.
One person said: “Give him six weeks to file for divorce. He won’t. Then go on with your life.”
Another added: “I’m not a fan of any type of cheating, but the added betrayal to your aunt just puts the icing on the cake.
“There are other men on the planet. Just move on.”
A third commented: “Tell him exactly what you told us, “you’re 19 and want to live your life”.
“If he can’t understand that then he’s being selfish. Good luck!”