I’m addicted to risky sex with my stepmum

DEAR DEIDRE: I WAS chopping logs for Dad’s fire when my stepmum said I could do with a break. We had beers in their conservatory, then a few more, and then sex in the kitchen. It was crazy.

She’s 36 and I’m 23. Dad is very young at heart at 50.

Mum and Dad divorced when I was a kid. Dad has been on his own for years so when he texted me to tell me he’d met somebody, I was over the moon.

As soon as I met her I liked her. She’s pretty and fun – Dad hadn’t looked so happy in years.

Then, because I studied at university near where they live I stayed with them a few times during the holidays.

It was great as their house is massive and I had my own bedroom, bathroom and separate entrance. So when they suggested I move in to save on rent I was more than happy.

Dad works away regularly and my stepmum works from home. Last month I stopped working on my assignments and thought I’d help Dad out by chopping some logs. It was a way of paying for my keep.

My stepmum came out with some beers and after half an hour, we were both feeling tiddly.

She walked back towards the kitchen and tripped over my foot. I went to grab her arm and she landed on top of me. She was very giggly. Then she kissed me.

I got caught up in the moment, we continued kissing and started taking one another’s clothes off. The sex was out of this world.

I’m still living with them. Me and my stepmum have sex when Dad is away.

If he finds out though, our fun will be over.

DEIDRE SAYS: That’s not the only thing that will be over – his marriage, his happiness, never mind his relationship with you, are all at risk. This isn’t solely down to you.

She may not be the ideal wife but leave him to find that out for himself.  It would be a double blow to know that his wife and son were doing the dirty on him.

Move out of their home and back to a house share. It’s worth spending the money to save your family from the fallout.

Tell your stepmum lover that you can’t do this to your father.

Get out with your university mates while you can and find a girlfriend who is free to have a relationship with you.