I’m a millionaire matchmaker – there’s a line that’s an instant red flag… run as soon as you can if you hear it
A DATING expert has revealed the line that’s a major red flag – and it doesn’t matter how promising the relationship may seem.
Millionaire matchmaker Louanne Ward warned that if your partner says they ”don’t want to hurt you”, then you should best be prepared for a break-up.
”When somebody says they don’t want to hurt you what they are really saying is that they believe you have more feelings for them than they have for you,” she explained on Instagram.
The relationship coach explained there would be no risk of hurting you if they were committed and ”they saw you as future potential”.
The blonde beauty, who regularly shares expert advice on her page, said people who use this line have most likely ”been guilty” of leading someone on before, despite not sharing the same feelings.
”They can also say this because it makes them come across like they are a nice, caring person,” she said.
”They don’t have to feel bad because they warned you,” she explained the process behind the common line.
According to the love guru, if you hear this line, you should get serious and ask yourself what you’re doing with this person.
”If they don’t see you as somebody that they want to have a relationship with and they can end it at some point, because they have no need to say that if they don’t have an intention to end it.
”This person is going to end up hurting you if you stay where you are,” Louanne warned.
On the platform, where Louanne boasts close to a staggering 30k followers, viewers couldn’t help but agree.
”It’s just a get out of jail free card – as if to say I warned you. You only have yourself to blame.
”That’s your red flag to strut yourself right out of their life,” one woman agreed.
Another said the expert was ”delivering truth bombs again” and the millionaire matchmaker laughed.
”It’s what I do… better to be hurt by the truth than destroyed by a lie.”
The Aussie dating expert, from Perth, has more than 20 years’ experience in coaching and matchmaking super wealthy clients – and charges up to £8,170 ($15,000 AUS) for her services.
Four red flags your partner is cheating
Private Investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating.
They start to take their phone everywhere with them
In close relationships, it’s normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones, if their phone habits change then they may be hiding something.
Aaron says: “If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful.”
“You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don’t want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it’s an easy way to get caught out,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron.
Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify.
“To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you haven’t walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime. A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating,” warns Aaron.
The love whizz has spilled the beans on all aspects of dating and being in a relationship – from seven popular red flags to look out for, five questions to ask before every first date, as well as four signs your other half is losing interest.
When someone is losing interest in you, the first thing you might notice is they might not be returning your calls as quickly as they used to.
“You might also have noticed that they’ve dropped off on the morning and evening text messages that you’re used to, they might not be organising to spend as much time with you, and the sex will probably have fallen off a cliff too.”
She explained that this can happen for any number of reasons but she suggested if faced with this problem, you should start by evaluating the relationship.
Louanne said: “Have a look at your relationship now and at how it was when you first met.
“Have you fallen into the trap of playing married couple and house too soon?”