I found out my husband was cheating as I had chemo, so I decided to get revenge… people say it’s the ‘least he deserved’
A WOMAN has revealed the spicy way she got revenge after finding out her husband had been cheating while she battled cancer.
She split from her spouse after a “difficult six months” of her going through chemotherapy for blood cancer.
But soon after they separated, his “many flings and affairs came to surface”.
So, after plotting different ways to get revenge, she came up with an idea that would leave her ex feeling uncomfortable in more ways than one.
“I emptied all his cycling shorts out onto the floor, turned them inside out, stormed into the kitchen, grabbed a spicy chilli pepper, sliced it in half and proceeded to rub the chilli into every spongy crevice of the inside cushioning of the cycling shorts,” she said in a letter written to the Everything LuAnna podcast.
“For those that don’t know, cyclists don’t wear any underwear under the lycra.
“I then folded all the shorts up nicely and placed them back in the drawer.”
And that wasn’t it as she also “dunked his toothbrush into the toilet after I had a wee”, for “good measure”.
People in the comments section of a video clip of the podcast, shared on TikTok, were quick to praise the woman for getting her revenge.
“I love it! He wants it spicy he can go ahead!” one wrote.
“Haa! That’s the least he deserved too, good on her,” another added.
“I feel she was kind! .. you go girl,” a third commented.
“Fair play to her!!! I would absolutely do the same,” someone else insisted.
“The old revenge tactics are the best,” another wrote.
“Love it, well done that lady!” someone else agreed.
“I wish I could see him running!” another laughed.
While others used the comments section to reveal their own ways of seeking revenge on a cheating partner.
“I cleaned my ex’s toilet with his toothbrush – that was epic,” one wrote.
Four red flags your partner is cheating
Private Investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating.
They start to take their phone everywhere with them
In close relationships, it’s normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones, if their phone habits change then they may be hiding something.
Aaron says: “If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful.”
“You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don’t want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it’s an easy way to get caught out,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron.
Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify.
“To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you haven’t walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime. A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating,” warns Aaron.
“I put his work clothes into the dryer on high, and dumped one of his many containers of pee in it,” another said.
“I once cut the crochet out of all the pants and underwear, armpits out of shirts, and boob holes in tanks,” a third commented.
“He was cheating. I then folded everything nice and put in boxes for him!”