The girl I like hasn’t responded since I asked her on a date
DEAR DEIDRE: WEEKS after I asked the girl I like if she wants to meet up, she still hasn’t responded.
Now I’m confused whether that means she isn’t interested or is she just playing hard to get?
I’m 16 and have been talking to a girl, also 16, on social media. We get on really well and I’d like to date her.
Three weeks ago I sent her a message asking if she’d like to meet up. She just said, ‘I’ll let you know” but she hasn’t!
We’ve messaged several times since.
I want to ask her again, but I’m worried I’ll look too keen.
What should I do? Give up and just be friends or let her know I’m really interested and risk being rejected?
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DEIDRE SAYS: It must be disappointing not to have had a reply.
It’s hard to say why. Perhaps she’s simply not ready, or she’s not interested, or she’s nervous about meeting up with someone she doesn’t know.
You’ll never know unless you ask. I know it’s scary but at least you’ll know where you stand.
Good luck.