'Walk away, don't kill:' Family speaks out against gun violence at son's vigil

COLUMBUS, Ohio (WCMH) -- A vigil was held Saturday night for John Wilks, the victim of a shooting last month that left one dead and another injured after an alleged dispute.

John Wilks' family wanted to celebrate the life of the 28-year-old father. His mother, Shari Wilks, said she wants people to know who he was.  

“John was a gentle giant. He had a heart of gold, and he was a calm presence and a great spirit,” Shari Wilks said. “He thought of everyone and did everything he could for anyone at any time.” 

His father, Ronnie Wilks, said he wants to use this moment to shine a light on the impact of gun violence throughout Columbus. He hopes by seeing their grief and pain, it can prevent someone from taking another life. 

“I hope that it brings awareness and I hope that a young person sees this and really think about the trajectory of his life,” Wilks said. “The senseless killing, I mean just having a gun, It doesn't make you a man. It just creates more problems than maybe you can handle.”   

Friends and family released balloons and lit candles to honor John Wilks, who brought so much to all of their lives. They said they want people in the community to know how important it is to preserve and live life. 

“Lives are precious and important, and everyone matters,” Shari Wilks said. “So just think, try to talk it out. Walk away, don't kill. Don't kill.” 

Mehki Miller, 18, is the alleged shooter according to Columbus police, and he was taken into custody the same night John was shot. The family said they are relieved Miller is in jail as they mourn.

"He touched everyone's soul in the way that he did," Shari Wilks said. "He will live within us forever ... We love you, John.”