My school reunion led to a steamy affair
DEAR DEIDRE: At my school reunion, I ended up kissing the biggest player from our sixth form, then starting an affair with him.
Now he’s cheated on me countless times. I should have known better, but I’ve always secretly fancied him, and I don’t want to let him go.
I’m 32 now and he’s 34. He admitted he was married when we met at the reunion.
He charmed me, chatting me up and offering me a lift home. He said his marriage was over and if I’d go on a date with him, he’d prove he could be faithful.
Since then he’s repeatedly cheated on me. He’s been back to his ex for sex three times, and he was caught on camera kissing a colleague at his Christmas party.
Now a friend has messaged me, telling me she saw him kissing a woman at the beach not far from me, when he was supposed to be travelling for work.
I’m scared that if I confront him, once again he’ll apologise and squirm his way back into my good books.
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DEIDRE SAYS: It’s time to start valuing yourself.
This man has been a serial cheat since school. He has no desire to change and so he’s not going to.
You deserve better. Stop putting up with his behaviour.
You’re not a schoolgirl anymore, and this crush is holding you back.
My support pack, Addictive Love, will help you to see this relationship for what it truly is.
Move on and find someone who values you and who can be faithful.
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